Here's some more great info from our friends
Dr. Patrick & Lisa Cohn at www.peaksports.com.
As the fall sports season begins, it’s a great idea to
look at ways to boost your kids’ confidence in sports.
Going into a season equipped with the mental-game
strategies to stay mentally tough will help your kids
throughout the season and the year.
Doubt is the Number One confidence killer for young
athletes, so you should begin by addressing this big
one as the season starts.
Sports kids who are hard on themselves tend to doubt
themselves more. They tend to be pessimistic,
perfectionists, or expect a lot of themselves.
Often, they doubt their abilities even before they
start a competition or make a mistake.
As you might imagine, these kids can let doubt run
rampant in their minds. After goofing up, they might
ask themselves:
--“Am I tall enough to play this position?”
--“Am I weari ng the right shoes?”
--“Do I have enough natural talent to play?”
--“Can I really beat my opponent?”
Such thoughts can drain the confidence out of any
athlete!
The key for sports parents and coaches is to help kids
identify common doubts and understand when they’re
doubting themselves. You then need to teach them how
to turn doubts into statements of self-confidence and
positive self-talk.
First of all, help your young athletes identify when
they’re experiencing doubts. Ask them what they tell
themselves after making a mistake. Have them list
their top five doubts.
Next, take some of these doubts and turn them into
positive statements…
For example, if your sports kids tell themselves, “I’m
too small to make that shot,” suggest that they tell
themselves instead, “I’ve made this shot in practices
hundreds of times. I know I can do it.”
Or if they tell themselves, “I’m not a talented
player,” you might suggest something like, “I’m a hard
worker, I’ve been successful in the past, I know I can
succeed.”
And what are people saying about our programs?
"I think you guys need to open a branch up here in
Detroit, Michigan because there are a lot of parents
and kids up here that need this information. Your
follow up techniques have been appropriate and
effective…Keep up the good work!"
~Scott, a sports dad
Confidence is the number one mental skill that kids
need to be successful in sports and life!
Sincerely,
Patrick Cohn, Ph.D. and Lisa Cohn
P.S. If you’d like to learn more about the top
confidence busters for sports kids--and ho w to overcome
them--be sure to check out our "Confident Sports Kid"
program here:
http://www.peaksports.com/the_
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